Sunday 7 July 2013

माँ


जब नींद आने लगे पढ़ते-पढ़ते,
तू होती तो कह देती की माँ एक कप चाय बना दे।

थक गई हूँ रुखी सुखी रोटी खा के
तू होती तो कह देती माँ जल्दी से परांठे बना दे।

यहाँ करूँ कोशिश रोज़ खुश रहने की,
तू होती तो कह देती की माँ मुंझे हँसा दे।

दूर निकल आई हूँ मैं अपने घर से,
तू होती तो कह देती माँ अपने आँचल में पनाह दे।

घर से दूर अपने मन को मार के मैं रहती हूँ,
तू होती तो कहती मुझको फिर से बच्चा बना दे।

जब सब से अलग इस मतलबी संसार से लडती हूँ,
तू होती तो माँ कहती की खुद को  मेरा ढाल बना ले।

मैं अगर दिखलाती नहीं, तेरी प्रवाह करती हूँ मैं माँ,
यूँ तो में बतलाती नहीं तेरे जाने से डरती हूँ में माँ तुझे सब है पता मेरी माँ।

भगवान् ने माँ इसलिए बनाई ताकि भगवान् जहाँ नहीं सके वहां माँ पहुँच सके।

मेरी तरफ से आज दुनिया की हर एक माँ को मदरर्स डे की बहुत बहुत शुभकामनाएं।

Molestation in corporate world with females

Sexual harassment is bullying or coerics of a sexual nature, or the unwelcomeor inappropriate promise of rewards in exchange for sexual favors.In most modern legal contexts, sexualharassment is illegal. As defined by the US eeoc, "It is unlawfulto harass a person (an applicant or employee) because of that person’ssex." Harassment can include "sexual harassment" or unwelcomesexual advances, requests for sexual favors, and other verbal or physicalharassment of a sexual nature.

Where laws surrounding sexual harassment exist, they typicallydon’t prohibit simple teasing, offhand comments, or minor isolated incidents.In the workplace, harassment may be considered illegal when it is so frequentor severe that it creates a hostile or offensive work environment or when itresults in an adverse employment decision (such as the victim being fired ordemoted, or when the victim decides to quit the job).

The harasser can be the victim's supervisor, a supervisor in another area, a co-worker, or someone who is not an employee of the employer,such as a client or customer.

It includes a range of behavior from mild transgressions to sexual abuse or sexual assault  Sexual harassment is a form of  illegal  employment discrimination  in many countries, and is a form of abuse  (sexual and psychology) and bullying . For many businesses and other organizations, preventing sexual harassment, and defending employees from sexual harassment charges, have become key goals of legal decision-making.

Sexual harassment may occur in a variety of circumstances. Often,but not always, the harasser is in a position of power  or authority over the victim (due to differences in age, or social, political, educational or employment relationships) or expecting to receive such power or authority in form of promotion. Forms of harassment relationships include:

·        The harasser can be anyone, such as a client, a co-worker, a parent or legal guardian, relative, a teacher or professor, a student, a friend, or a stranger.
·        The victim does not have to be the person directly harassed but can be a witness of such behavior who finds the behavior offensive and is affected by it.
·        The place of harassment occurrence may vary from school, university, workplace and other.
·        There may be other witnesses or attendances, or not.
·        The harasser may be completely unaware that his or her behavior is offensive or constitutes sexual harassment or may be completely unaware that his or her actions could be unlawful.
·        The harassment can take place in situations in which the harassed person may not be aware of what is happening, such as during rituals with kids, or when entering limbo.
·        The harassment may be one time occurrence but more often it has a type of repetitiveness
·        Adverse effects on the target are common in the form of stress and social withdrawal, sleep and eating difficulties, overall health impairment, etc.
·        The victim and harasser-can be any gender.
·        The harasser does not have to be of the opposite sex.
·        Misunderstanding: It can result from a situation where one thinks he/she is making themselves clear, but is not understood the way they intended. The misunderstanding can either be reasonable or unreasonable. An example of unreasonable is when a man holds certain stereotypical view of a woman such that he did not understand the woman’s explicit message to stop.